What is personality development? 

 

"Personality is a pattern of distinctive ideas, feelings, and patterns of behavior that differentiates one individual from the other and persist over time."

Building your capacities, developing your talent, strengthening new skill sets, focusing on your shortcomings, and changing them into strengths is all part of personality development.

Importance of Personality Development

The importance of personality development includes several reasons:

• Personality development helps you to determine your strengths and weaknesses.

• It helps you develop that one winning quality: confidence. Confident people are more likely to succeed in the long term.

• It helps you communicate effectively and precisely.

• It gives you the ability to make intelligent judgments and choices.

 

• It conceives an individual and helps him make an identity of their own.

• It helps you to communicate your concepts more effectively and precisely to others in an efficient manner.

• It inspires you to look at the positive side of life.

• It makes you look different, confident and helps you face the world with a beautiful smile.

• Personality traits helps you to establish a positive demeanour in your life. An individual with a negative attitude finds the problem in every situation but still always keeps a phrase in your mind, "Never lose your Cool," as it would worsen the situation.

• Personality development helps evolve a person's positive qualities like punctuality, comfortable attitude, desire to learn, friendly nature, interest in helping others.

• It helps in gaining recognition and acceptance from the community and the people around you

 

    Personality development is not an easy task. Developing one's personality may consume a lot of time and effort.

Personality development results from many genetic factors, which include confidence, willpower, concentration, memory, time management, and especially smile. A single smile can make others happy. A smile also represents one's personality.

    Self-confidence is one important key factor in personality development that leads us to a prosperous life. A person who has confidence in his work and himself will never give up, and he will repeatedly try after falling thousand times.

Failures and hardships give the person more confidence in themselves and make a person rectify their mistakes, which they have made once. Confidence also helps people to overcome their fears of public speaking too. 

 

 Importance of Personality Development in Students life:- 

Personality development should be at the very beginning of student life, and it is a true reflection of their character. Students need to develop an outgoing and impressive personality that helps them to enhances the quality of learning. Everyone has unique characteristics that make them unique and different from others.

It approaches from the physical state of mind and includes a mental state in its advancement. It is an initiative that improves certain qualities that contribute to the whole personality. A good personality helps in better social and professional life.

 

  We all believe that the schools are the second home for children and their major portion of life is spent in schools only, and this is true also, but the schools in India don't provide personality development programs to students.

Students must be provided to work on their communication skills and personality development. Students in the rural areas are very unaware of these development programs, if any, taking place. All children need to be counselled and guided to enhance their self-confidence and eliminate the fear of public speaking.

Many of the students do not have self-confidence, which is why they have a lot of fear from public speaking. Personality is moulded by parental upbringing and how they are evolved in their school lives. Pre and primary schools are the foundation for students and then further enhanced once they reach the secondary level.

 

  How to develop a personality?

1. Be a good listener: - There's nothing more appealing to hearing someone talk to you than makes you feel like you're the only person in the world who listens.

2. Be a good conversationalist: - Once you have more to contribute with others, learn a better way to communicate that to people around you in an effective and precise manner. 

3. Be yourself: - moulding yourself according to others is useless as each person is unique in their characters, expressing their uniqueness with their different qualities and their nature. A carbon copy of others is useless, but having all the qualities and fulfilling the wishes you want is a personality. Personality is a thing which you should have to be one according to anyone, and it's the thing which you should be according to yourself, in the way you wanted to be. 

4. Read more and expand your interests: - The more you read and create new interest, the more interesting you will become to others.

 

conclusion

From the full extract, we only understand that we are not like others. We have to build our own identity and an enticing personality.

We often suppress our kindness and our childish qualities thinking about others, but suppressing our personality is not the right way. Our personality always makes us meet with ourselves and the person inside us. Personality is not the thing to show off, but it is a thing to make ourselves the best person in the world.

Thank you for joining me, and I'm looking forward to seeing you soon on our next personality development article.

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